My thanks to God,
Only that he made you,
My thanks to earth,
Only that it keeps you,
My thanks to sun,
Only that it gives you light,
My thanks to night,
Only that it makes dream of you,
My thanks to you,
Only that you love me!
Sunday, June 5, 2011
Love at first sight...Is it true?
If u asked people......
why they fall in love?
U'll get different answers from different one....
Some will say that i found him/her attractive.....
some will say that i found him/her most trustworthy.....
some will say that i found him/her so carey....
etc. etc. etc.
Can u find anyone who contains all the qualities?
Say.....someone contains all the qualities.......
question is: how u'll know it unless u spend uor time with him or her?
Every human being has some own qualities.....
some god gifted creativity.....
some qualities r hidden......some qualities r open....
the most emotional qualities alwayz remain hidden in each person.....
they showed up in actual circumstances....
In a case of:
"Love at first sight"....
how u expect any type of actual circumstances......at a glance
where u can define that uor love one has the emotional qualities or not?
judgement of love at first sight.....in most cases.....depends on....
beautiful face.....attractive figure.....sex appeal......etc....
but in long run......u've to find out.....
whether he or she has the qualities that can give u a feelings....
a feeling that u can bear inside u in your entire life........
a feeling that your love one never betray u......
never give u pain......
alwayz understand u....
sacrifice for u.......
also feel pain when u r in pain....
Is Our Love Pure?
Is our love pure?....
If pure then how much?....
We always try to calculate how people loves us....
But what about us?
Now a days there are many ways to calculate love, honesty etc....
by answering some selected questions.....
but my question is: Is our love really pure?.....
How much we can sacrifice for our special one?......
It is obvious that if the love level cross all limit then....
we can sacrifice our entire life for our love.......
Such as mothers love for a child...
but when a man loves a woman and when a woman loves a man....
is it logical to compare their love limit with mother & child?...
Answer is: A Big "NO".......
Conflict in Relation
Every relation has a view....
A view of bonding.....
Sometime this bonding contains conflict...
Conflict that destroy trust, love, peace & finally the entire relation.
Why conflict arises among a nice relationship?
Misunderstanding each other?......yes or maybe.
Why yes & why may be?
Most of our thinking is we know each other very well.
Is it true?
Let us take 'A' & 'B' as Parents & Children.
Our Parents paid every single moments in our childhood.....
they respond whenever we cried, whenever we need food.....
whenever we need to go to bathroom....everything
from a new born baby to next 5 to 10 years our life controled by our parents.....
it is natural.....
This 5 to 10 years parents understand us very well......
But when we created our own world inside us....with new thoughts.....
New relation....Not necessary that every thoughts will match with our Parents.....
This is Time point when a child seems to be a staranger to his/her parents......
Conflict arises....
Again.....
Let us take 'C' & 'D' as a Boyfriend & a Girlfriend.....
Say....Age of 'C' is 25 & the age of 'D' is 20....
& they fall in love to each other in this age....
'C' Passed his 25 years with his own thoughts....own method of life.....
Same thing is for'D'....she passed her 20 years with her own style.....own fashion....
When 'C' & 'D' started live togather.....
not necessary two different styles match with each other....
Conflict arises.....
So....what is the solution?
As a human being we are 65% identical to each other.....
Problem remains in next 35%.....
This 35% contains our own dream.....own thoughts.....own likings......
Once we can grow a sacrificing mentality inside us.....
This 35% reduces to only 5%.....
Then our own drems, thoughts, likings match with each other....
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