Every relation has a view....
A view of bonding.....
Sometime this bonding contains conflict...
Conflict that destroy trust, love, peace & finally the entire relation.
Why conflict arises among a nice relationship?
Misunderstanding each other?......yes or maybe.
Why yes & why may be?
Most of our thinking is we know each other very well.
Is it true?
Let us take 'A' & 'B' as Parents & Children.
Our Parents paid every single moments in our childhood.....
they respond whenever we cried, whenever we need food.....
whenever we need to go to bathroom....everything
from a new born baby to next 5 to 10 years our life controled by our parents.....
it is natural.....
This 5 to 10 years parents understand us very well......
But when we created our own world inside us....with new thoughts.....
New relation....Not necessary that every thoughts will match with our Parents.....
This is Time point when a child seems to be a staranger to his/her parents......
Conflict arises....
Again.....
Let us take 'C' & 'D' as a Boyfriend & a Girlfriend.....
Say....Age of 'C' is 25 & the age of 'D' is 20....
& they fall in love to each other in this age....
'C' Passed his 25 years with his own thoughts....own method of life.....
Same thing is for'D'....she passed her 20 years with her own style.....own fashion....
When 'C' & 'D' started live togather.....
not necessary two different styles match with each other....
Conflict arises.....
So....what is the solution?
As a human being we are 65% identical to each other.....
Problem remains in next 35%.....
This 35% contains our own dream.....own thoughts.....own likings......
Once we can grow a sacrificing mentality inside us.....
This 35% reduces to only 5%.....
Then our own drems, thoughts, likings match with each other....
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